Monday, March 28, 2011

Me and my girlfriend

La and I have been able to spend a whole bunch of quality time together since her return from Arizona. It's been wonderful.

The only downside is that the reason we've been spending so much mommy-daughter time is because Dr P has been skiing in Vail at a bachelor party. We miss the boy, darnit!

Here's what we two girls have been up to in his absence:

On Friday I took an early break from work to "have lunch" with La at her school. I didn't actually eat, because who in the heck eats lunch at 10:30 am? Besides La and her classmates, of course. And grandma Fern. I mean, I barely had time for my coffee to kick in, and there I was, inhaling the scent of Hamburger Steak with Gravy.

PEEEE to the UUUU, man.

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Isn't it cute how they have little codes they punch in? Nifty. La had to enter hers three times because I was hovering and making her nervous. Sorry La. It's what moms do. We micromanage.

On Fridays they're allowed to have ice cream. Every single kid in that lunchroom started his/her meal with the ice cream course. It was quite the spectacle.

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It was so special, sitting there, conversing with La and her classmates. They were all very sweet. But when lunch was over very strange thing happened. La cried when I told her I had to leave. She has never even cried when I've put her on the plane to see her dad. But when I left that lunchroom? All-out waterworks.

That evening we moseyed on down the block to SAW's Barbeque. The pork they serve there is the stuff of heaven, I'm convinced.

La likes their baked potatoes and sweet tea.

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And I like anything there that I can stuff in my face. It's all so dang DELICIOUS.

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After dinner we took a stroll to the playground at La's school, where La got to hang out with this furry little creature.

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At first I was like, "Don't touch that thing! DO YOU WANT RABIES?!" But it turned out one of the kids playing at the park had brought her pet rabbit with her to get some exercise. So it was all good.

On Saturday, we "slept in" until 7:30 and hung out in our PJs until somewhere round lunchtime when we finally picked our butts up off the couch and went to get us some beignets.

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La has never had a beignet before, and she's been dying to try one ever since Disney's The Princess and The Frog came out.

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I had to google where to get beignets in Birmingham, and that led us to a little hole-in-the-wall downtown. The place was pretty much a dive, but their food was decent.

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The sugar kicked in immediately, as it usually does.

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After our sugar high, we hopped back in the car and headed to the movie theater, where we saw Diary of a Wimpy Kid: Rodrick Rules. We both loved the movie. La has read a few of the books, and it was fun to see her get excited about certain parts of the movie that she knew were coming up.

Saturday night the two of us spent much of the evening holed up in the basement bathroom—a result of tornado warnings in our area. The warning went something like, "An extremely large, very destructive tornado has been tracked 20 miles northwest of Birmingham, heading in a southeast direction. Birmingham area residents should seek shelter in an interior room in the lowest level of a sturdy building. A tornado can develop at any time!"

That was enough to get our little hineys straight into the basement, where we hung out on the bathroom floor with blankets and pillows and a flashlight and extra batteries just in case.

The bad part of the storm missed us by a few miles, and we were fine ... just a little shaken.

Aside from Saturday night's adventure, our long weekend together was relaxing and fun. But we are both very happy to have Dr P home again.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Crawdads and Mountaintops

Once again, it's been over a week since I last posted. Where in the world does the time go?

I have my baby back now. She's been back since Sunday, and she's sweeter than ever. Our little family feels complete again. I'm not sure how we're going to handle La being gone for six weeks this summer. Thinking about it now makes me want to crawl into a hole and cry. So, I just don't think about it! Yay! It's called denial. Makes everything better.

I'm fully aware that I may need heavy counseling come summertime.

Despite missing La, Dr P and I had a pretty good time while La was gone. We got some things done, I think. I can't really remember, actually. I know we had a list of stuff to accomplish while she was away. And I also know that I can't find that list, so I have no idea if we actually accomplished anything.

But we did climb a giant hill!

We took a 4-mile trail at Oak Mountain State Park that took us straight up the side of the mountain, and man did it kick our butts!

But the view from the top was worth the sweat and dizziness on the way up. (not sure if the dizziness was a result of the altitude or the fact that I'm completely out of shape or the vast quantity of adult beverages we had consumed the night before. All of the above perhaps?)

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That night we rewarded our valiant mountain-climbing efforts with some bawled (boiled) crawfish.

Hello, little crawdaddy! GIT IN MAH BELLY.

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I don't believe I've ever partaken in a crawfish boil before. They're not a big thing up north, ya know.

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But I'm well on my way to becoming a southern gal. And those little buggers are mighty tasty!

Maybe we'll take La for some bawled crawfish sometime soon. Knowing her "adventurous" (HA!) palate, I'm sure she'd be overjoyed to suck the fat out of one of those little buggers.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Seven

Dear La,

Today you turn seven, and I know I say this every year, but I cannot believe you're that old. It's hard to fathom that it's been an entire year since you turned six. But it has! And so much has happened in that year.

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This is the first birthday of yours where I haven't woken you up with an off-key serenade of "Happy Birthday to You." It's spring break and you're visiting with your Dad in Arizona. It breaks my heart that we're not together today, but I'm sure you're having a blast doing whatever it is that you're doing.

Lately when I put you to sleep we go back and forth saying how much we love each other. It ends up being a contest of who can love the other one more. You'll say, "I love you all the way to China, and then to Egypt, and then to the moon, and then to Mars, and then to Pluto, and then back to Earth. THAT'S how much I love you." And I'll reply with "Well, I love you all the way to Madagascar, and then to Antarctica, and then to Bolivia, and then to another galaxy far, far away, and then back to our solar system, and around the sun twice ... and then back to our house. THAT'S how much I love you."

The other night after a few of these back-and-forth proclamations you said, "I love you all the way to ... to ... to ..." and you took a long pause to think of somewhere reeeeeeeaaally far away that we've never said of before. Somewhere that would top all the places we've ever thought of. And I took that opportunity to insert a place for you, which was "MY BUTT." (bellowed loudly in my deepest "man voice")

La, I really don't know if I've ever heard you laugh that hard in all of your seven years.

It's good to know that I can still crack you up by saying the word "butt."

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This morning I'm sitting here thinking about how many adjustments you've had to make over the past year, and how you've done it ever so beautifully.

In the past year, we've gone from being "just the two of us" ...

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... to being "the three of us."

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And the smoothness of that transition has positively blown my mind. It's clear that the three of us were meant to be together.

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Over the past year, we grew to love not only Dr P, but also his sweet dog, Huckleberry.

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And then we had to deal with the sadness of losing Huck. This is the first time that you've known and loved an animal, and had to let him go. It's also the first time I've loved an animal and had to let him go. It was very hard, even though we only knew him for less than a year. I can't imagine how Dr P felt after spending thirteen years with him.

What a very special little man Huckleberry was.

You also had to say goodbye to Chicago and to your best friend J when we moved to Alabama.

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I love this photo for oh-so-many reasons.

The two of you were inseparable, and I know it wasn't easy to say goodbye.

But when J came to visit last weekend for your birthday party, the two of you picked right back up where you left off. When we met J and her mama at the airport, J bounded over to you, wrapped you up in a bear hug and yelled, "La, I love you so much!"

What a fantastic reunion. It was then that I realized that the two of you will probably always be great friends. It's almost like when I see my best friend from childhood, Mellissa, who I haven't lived in the same state with since I was five. It all comes back the instant we see each other again, and I'm sure that's just how it will be for the two of you.

This is the best photo I have of you and J from your birthday party. You can clearly tell that the two of you stayed up until midnight the night before, chatting and catching up and blatantly ignoring my pleas to go to sleep.

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This past year, you've grown to know and love Dr P's sweet nephews, who will be your cousins when Dr P and I get married. The three of you get along so well, as if you've always been together. It's been such a blessing because I never thought you would have any cousins your own age.

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One week ago, another "future cousin" was born, and when we went to visit her, I was reminded of what it was like seven years ago when you were born. Baby Neely was six pounds ... almost the same size you were at birth. I swear it was just yesterday that you were a petite, fragile, wrinkly little bundle just like her. And now you're a little woman. It is so darn hard to believe.

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This past year you performed what will likely be your last duty as a flower girl, in cousin Joel and Tami's wedding. You're just getting too old!

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This year you will be in our wedding, but you'll be a maid-of-honor instead. You'll be sharing that duty with Aunt M. And I know you'll do an incredible job, because you're already a detail-oriented, rigid, time-sensitive, control freak. (I mean that in the nicest way possible) You'll be perfect! You're exactly the type of person that my scatterbrained self will need to help keep everything straight on my wedding day. You and Aunt M will be the best maid-of-honor team that's ever existed. I can't wait!

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La, I hope that you are having an incredible birthday today. I'm sure that you are. I can't wait to have you back in a couple of days. Dr P and I keep saying that it's just not the same without you here.

In the meantime, I just want to tell you that I love you all the way to MY BUTT.

Hehe. Just kidding.

The truth is that there are no words to describe the amount of love I have for you in my heart. It's infinite.

Happy birthday to my sweet, beautiful, grown-up little princess. I love you so very much.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

La's Birthday Party!

This past weekend we hosted a birthday party for La at our home. Thirteen wild and crazy kids showed up.

Man, I'm glad that's over with.

We kicked off the party with some pizza and snacks, and then there were a few competitive games of limbo, cupcake decorating (I saw a couple kids lick the frosting spreaders and put them back in the tubs. Gross, man.), bubble art, sidewalk chalk, gift opening, and finally a scavenger hunt to find their party favors.

I thought for not being a "planner," I did a pretty ok job of planning her party. Except when I wrote out the clues for the scavenger hunt. Let's just say I probably should have saved the "traipsing through the mud" part for last. Oh well. You live, you learn, right?

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Emmett

So, we've been hanging out with Dr P's mama's dog, Emmett, for the past few days, and he's making me want one like nobody's business. He's pretty much the definition of ADORABLE.

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And he sort of reminds me of Michael Jackson. So I sit with him on my lap while I work, singing Billy Jean and Thriller and Don't Matter if You're Black or White (which makes me chuckle because, well, he's both.) all day long. He loooooooves it soooooo much. (PS ... this is what happens when people work from home and have zero adult interaction on a daily basis. They sing off-key MJ songs to dogs.)

Me and Emmett, we're pals.

I heard a rumor that his mama might be picking him up tonight and I'm in a slight state of depression over it.

La will be sad too. She's been chasing him around the house yelling "Eyyemmmettt Jayyyyyne!" and "Emmmyyyy Lou!" in her finest southern accent, and he's been sleeping in her bed with her at night. It's very sweet.

Does this mean our family needs a dog? Hmmmm.

To be continued ...

Thursday, March 3, 2011

The Lake!

Last weekend we had the pleasure of spending some time at Lake Martin with Dr P's boss and his wonderful family at their lake home. And man, if that didn't give us the itch to git us a little ol' lake house! ... But not right now. And not anytime soon. But someday! Maybe!

La made this face a lot.

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And so did Dr P.

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I like it when they do that.

La was right at home cruising around the lake on the pontoon like a little princess.

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It was still February when we were there and we needed sunscreen. Sunscreen in February! It absolutely blows my mind. (Aunt M's dermatologist boyfriend would slap me upside the head right now for saying that. Sorry Ted! Good boys and girls wear sunscreen every day.)

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The weekend was absolutely perfect. Thank you Dr A and family for your warm and generous hospitality. What a great time we had. And let us know if you ever need a house sitter!